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5 Days

It’s your *Friday Love Note* and 5 Days.

I can’t wait for the 5 day challenge next week.

(Oh, and if you haven’t joined, go ahead and click here.)

I’m excited to help you build your single mom confidence and I cannot wait to hear the success stories.

We spend too little time celebrating success IMO.

But this 5 days will be all about succeeding at building confidence and sharing that success.

When I hear about how my clients are succeeding – it’s a reminder to me that change is possible.

The success they share with each other – creates more success for the group.

We create success, share success, and increase success. It’s magical.

What you focus on grows, so why not focus on success, right?!

What success did you have this week?
What success are you creating today?
What success are you planning for tomorrow?

Have an amazing weekend, because you deserve it!

-Molly Claire

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this is so much fun

It’s your *Think it Thursday* and this is so much fun!

Have I mentioned lately the importance of doing fun things in your life?

I used to think that was so frivolous.
I used to think, “Must be nice…. But I don’t have the time.”

The truth is- there is too little time in life NOT to have fun.

This week I started a new practice of writing down all the fun things I’ve built into my week and posting it by my bed. I see it every morning and every night. And every time I walk by.

My life is busy. 3 kids, my business, and all the craziness of life that creeps into the day.

But when I see that list, I get excited about all of those little things.

It might be a phone call you plan to have with a friend. Or picking up your favorite shampoo that’s on sale at Beauty Brands. Maybe it’s date night, or a walk, or choosing a paint color for your bedroom.

List everything you want to feel excited about.

Think about those things all through the week.

It’s magical.

Have a great day, one thought at a time!

-Molly Claire

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New beginnings

It’s your *Friday Love Note* and New beginnings…

It’s Easter weekend and it might be full of excitement and fun for you.

Or you might be discouraged about your life.
It might not be your turn with the kids.
You might be dreading interaction with your ex.

A lot of things may be coming up for you – and that’s totally normal.
But just remember, that Easter is all about new beginnings.
Easter means that everything that’s gone wrong, will be made right.
Every sadness and every wound, will be healed.
It means that more is possible than we can ever imagine.

What if that’s true?
What if life is full of hope and happiness?
What if the best is yet to come?
I believe it’s true.
Have an amazing weekend – you deserve it <3

-Molly

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2 more lives

It’s *Think it Thursday* and 2 more lives…

This week 2 more women signed up to start coaching with me.
Do you know what this means?

It means they have made a decision that their life and happiness matters.

They are tired of feeling overwhelmed and frustrated.
They are tired of feeling like they aren’t doing enough.
They are fed up with being ineffective, stuck in a rut, and downright unhappy.

And so, they decided to bet on themselves.

It wasn’t easy for either of them.
It was hard for them to think about spending money on themselves and scary to fear that it wouldn’t really make a difference.
Can you relate?

They both said, “it’s not you, it’s me.”  “I’m just afraid I can’t make these changes.”
But both of them, decided to bet on themselves.

They chose to believe they could do it and that more was possible.
And of course, they can do it.
It’s not just possible, it’s happening.

How can you bet on yourself today? Maybe you’re ready for a call with me, and maybe you’re not.
Either way, take a minute to think about what needs to change and how you can make it happen.

How will you take a step toward eliminating overwhelm?
How will you feel more satisfied in your life and relationships?
How will you have more confidence in who you are as an amazing and vibrant woman?

Think about it.
Bet on yourself.
Make it happen. 

Have a great day, one thought at a time!

And YES – I do have a spot for you too.  Click here if you’re ready to have a conversation about it.

Xo
-Molly Claire

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kids in my bed

It’s your *Friday love note* and kids in my bed –

Yesterday in my Single Mom Group, Katie was feeling guilty about letting her kids sleep in her room.

She said it’s easier to have them stay with her than it is to battle bedtime.

She feels bad telling them to sleep in their own bed since they are having to deal with the sudden nature of her divorce.

But she also feels guilty that she doesn’t have more structure at bedtime.

She feels guilty if they are in her bed.

She feels guilty if she enforces a routine and has them sleep in their beds.

Either way, her mind is creating guilt.

We decided to remove the guilt and see what she actually wanted to do.

She wanted a routine. She wanted them in their own bed.

We decided she could feel confident and empowered about her decision, instead of guilty.

When she parents with confidence, her kids will feel more secure.

She’ll show up the way she wants to. And set things up in a way that works best for her.

For a while I let my kids stay in my room and it was totally fine.

Then I decided it was time to come to an end.

Either way I could feel good about the decision.

Either way, my kids could know that I loved them.

Where are you feeling guilty?

If you could release the guilt, what decision would you want to make?

Think about it.

Click here for a “clear the guilt” mini session with me.

BTW – here is a pic of my full bed! Great memories of just keeping my kids close 😉

Have an amazing weekend – you deserve it <3

XO
-Molly Claire