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Is there anyone out there?

My client Sue wonders if she will ever really find someone to be her partner.

She had a great marriage for years. It was happy and connected. She loved her life.

Why did it have to change? How will she find that same happiness now?

Will she always be alone?

These are the things she wonders.

You may wonder these things too.

I know what it’s like to wonder if your life can really be what you want it to be. I know what it’s like to have a drastic change in your life and feel extreme loss and sadness. I know the feeling of lonely. And I know that lonely is hard.

I also know that life has shown me time and again (for me and my clients) that life is happening exactly as it’s supposed to.

I know that the worst things ironically turn out to be the best things.

I know that if you decide you want happiness in your life – you can and will create it.

I’m excited for you and all that your future holds.

It’s going to be magical. Don’t you think?

Have an amazing day – one thought at a time!

Afraid to commit

Friday Love – because you deserve it.
I have something for you today!

(and I can’t wait to tell you about it)

Dating after divorce can be fun.

And pretty scary too.

I remember when I first started dating I was afraid I might make a mistake again.

It was scary to open up to loving someone, and potentially face rejection or disappointment.

And being engaged…

has been a rollercoaster of emotions.

Yes, I help my clients manage their emotions and their lives – and still – I’m not exempt from feeling afraid.

That’s why I’m so excited about what I’ve got for you today.

My colleague Heather is an expert when it comes to fear around relationships and commitment after a divorce. She created a video that you should really check out.

The part I love most is when she explains why our brains go on high alert after experiencing divorce.

I really love her message and I know you will too.

She offers free mini sessions too and if I were you… I would be the first to schedule with her.

She’s amazing.

I can’t say enough good things about the work she does to help women like us let go of the fears and finally create a fresh start.

Click here and enjoy!

Have an amazing weekend – you deserve it!

What if you couldn’t?

Christina is a single mom who can’t help but think she failed in her marriage.

Why else would her husband cheat if there wasn’t something wrong with her?

She knows what she would tell someone else, but when it comes to her – she blames herself.

I challenged Christina and I’m going to challenge you too.

“Christina – what if you weren’t allowed to think there was something wrong with you? What if it just wasn’t an option at all. What then?”

When Christina takes away that option – so many others appear. She is able to invite in other ideas that are so much truer and give her a better understanding.

What’s your thought that you keep going back to? What’s the belief that keeps you stuck, frustrated or feeling sad? What if you weren’t allowed to think it. What if it were deleted, unavailable – totally out of reach.

What might you think instead?

Give it a try.

Have an amazing weekend – you deserve it!

disappointment

It took a while for me to start dating after my divorce.

I told myself I didn’t want to date.

I said that I had way too much going on and I was busy. I had my kids and my business. I was good at being independent.

The truth is that I was afraid to open myself up to disappointment.

I was afraid to admit that I wanted a connected relationship.

I was worried that I couldn’t handle losing another relationship and feel so much sadness and loss.

I decided to give it a try anyway.

How about you?

Are you willing to open up and give it a try?
What do you tell yourself is possible for your future?
What if something great is in store?

Think about it.