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Single Mom Mother’s Day LOVE

It’s your *Friday Love Note* and giving you some Single Mom Mother’s Day LOVE

Happy Mother’s Day week!

(And I’ve got something at the end of this email for you…)

But first, THIS.

I hope you remember that you’re amazing and beautiful (inside and out).

You’re exactly the way God made you. (He doesn’t make mistakes)

You were never supposed to be perfect – you are simply supposed to be… YOU.

Your kids may not appreciate you – but you make a difference to them.

All the time and energy you put in day in and day out – is worth it.

You make a difference.
You matter.
You are incredible.

Happy Mother’s Day! Treat yourself like a queen.

As promised – here’s your gift!

I’ve got multiple discounts (up to ½ off + amazon prime shipping) on The Happy Mom Mindset Collection for Mother’s day!

Check it out for you, your sister, your friend, or your neighbor.

Here’s the scoop:

The Happy Mom Mindset kindle book is priced at just $2.99.

The paperback book is discounted to $9.95 (with prime shipping).

The 100 page workbook (a MUST if you’re really ready to change your life) is only $9.95 – that’s half price (with prime shipping).

Gift yourself and gift a friend.

Happiness and a better life is always worth the investment.

Happy Mother’s Day Mama!

Be good to yourself <3

-Molly Claire

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New beginnings

It’s your *Friday Love Note* and New beginnings…

It’s Easter weekend and it might be full of excitement and fun for you.

Or you might be discouraged about your life.
It might not be your turn with the kids.
You might be dreading interaction with your ex.

A lot of things may be coming up for you – and that’s totally normal.
But just remember, that Easter is all about new beginnings.
Easter means that everything that’s gone wrong, will be made right.
Every sadness and every wound, will be healed.
It means that more is possible than we can ever imagine.

What if that’s true?
What if life is full of hope and happiness?
What if the best is yet to come?
I believe it’s true.
Have an amazing weekend – you deserve it <3

-Molly

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I have amazing news for you. This could be you…

Hey Single Mamas! It’s time for your *Friday Love Note* and I have amazing news for you. This could be you…

This week something incredible happened.
Before I tell you about it… let’s turn back time 1 year.

Last March I was on a spring break vacation with my kids, and my client’s marriage was unraveling.

I was skyping with her in the lobby of my hotel. She was sad, hurt, hopeless – pretty much every emotion you can imagine.
She felt as if her life and identity was falling apart. I remember it vividly because our connection kept cutting out. She was desperate for help because she felt so broken and afraid. We stayed on the call, through the ins and outs of the spotty wifi.

Fast forward to this week.

Over the last year we’ve been working through her fears and her sadness. All of the anger and resentment. We’ve been working on helping her move forward, while making peace with her past. We’ve been breaking down all of the negative self-beliefs like, “I’m not lovable,” “I’m not good enough,” and other nonsense that her brain wants to tell her.

And when we spoke this week, it was evident that she was a different person from that scared and lonely woman I spoke with a year ago. She just returned from a 3-week trip where she went outside of her comfort zone and proved to herself that she is strong and vibrant.

She now believes things like, “My life is pretty interesting and so am I,” “I’m attractive,” “Anything is possible.”

She is confident and assertive. She likes who she is and she isn’t afraid to live.
Wherever you are right now, just know – that this could be you. Wherever you’re stuck, doesn’t have to be permanent.

More is possible.
Healing is possible.
You can do it.
I know it’s true.

Click the link here to talk: http://divorcedmormonmom.com/mini

Your life and your future, is too important not to.

Have an amazing weekend – you deserve it <3

Xoxo
-Molly Claire

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I usually have trash in my car…

Hey Mamas! It’s *Think it Thursday* and I usually have trash in my car…

Last week a new client came to me wondering, “how is everyone else doing it?”
(referring to motherhood and life.)
Do you ever wonder that too?

Everyone else seems to be holding it together.

A clean house.
A balanced meal on the table at night.
Homework help.
Staying in shape.
Happy kids.
Booming career.
How is everyone else doing this?

The truth is that everyone is doing great at some things, okay at others, and some things – they aren’t doing at all. And maybe that’s okay.

One of the things my friend Sherry loves about me is that every time she gets in my car I say, “don’t let any trash fall out.”
And we laugh.

Because it’s true – there’s trash in my car.

My kid’s granola bar wrappers, school papers, empty water bottles… they are everywhere most of the time. I’m not good at asking them to clear stuff out. Sometimes I’m rushing or scatter-brained. And sometimes I just don’t spend the energy worrying about it.

I used to feel embarrassed, but I don’t any more. I’m doing my best and that has to be enough.

I’m doing great at some things.
Getting by when it comes to others.
And some things, are just not happening in my life.

I can still choose to have my own back.
And so can you.

Notice what’s going great.
Do your best to improve.
Let some things go.

Love yourself no matter what.

Have a great day, one thought at a time!

xo
-Molly Claire

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Define yourself for success

It’s time for *Mindset Monday* and it’s all about defining yourself…

What thought defines you?
Let’s think about it.

Define is an action word.
If I’m working to define a muscle in my workout, I’m taking specific action to carve out that area.
There is nothing passive about defining.
Yet somehow when it comes to our own thoughts that define us, we just take what’s there.
We allow default thoughts to define us.
We look at past success or failure, and allow that to define us.  We allow it to determine what’s possible for us the next time around.
It doesn’t have to be that way.

Go ahead and think about it… what thought defines you?
I’m successful? I’m capable?  I make things happen?
Or is it more like
I can’t succeed as much as that person.
I’m not as smart as…
I’m not very organized.

Whatever thoughts define you, will always be true about you. 

It doesn’t matter what success I achieved last year or last month.  I’m going to define myself and my level of success based on where I’m going tomorrow.
The thoughts that are going to define me, will take me exactly where I want to go.

I’m a person who manages my time well.
I’m a person who proves what’s possible beyond my current state.
I’m a person who moves mountains, even though it requires me to feel extreme fear and doubt and reach far beyond what’s comfortable for me.

And when those thoughts define me, that’s exactly who I become. 

Choose your thoughts wisely.
Define yourself based on where you’re going.
Make those things true about you. 

Have a great week!

-Molly Claire