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Is there anyone out there?

My client Sue wonders if she will ever really find someone to be her partner.

She had a great marriage for years. It was happy and connected. She loved her life.

Why did it have to change? How will she find that same happiness now?

Will she always be alone?

These are the things she wonders.

You may wonder these things too.

I know what it’s like to wonder if your life can really be what you want it to be. I know what it’s like to have a drastic change in your life and feel extreme loss and sadness. I know the feeling of lonely. And I know that lonely is hard.

I also know that life has shown me time and again (for me and my clients) that life is happening exactly as it’s supposed to.

I know that the worst things ironically turn out to be the best things.

I know that if you decide you want happiness in your life – you can and will create it.

I’m excited for you and all that your future holds.

It’s going to be magical. Don’t you think?

Have an amazing day – one thought at a time!

Afraid to commit

Friday Love – because you deserve it.
I have something for you today!

(and I can’t wait to tell you about it)

Dating after divorce can be fun.

And pretty scary too.

I remember when I first started dating I was afraid I might make a mistake again.

It was scary to open up to loving someone, and potentially face rejection or disappointment.

And being engaged…

has been a rollercoaster of emotions.

Yes, I help my clients manage their emotions and their lives – and still – I’m not exempt from feeling afraid.

That’s why I’m so excited about what I’ve got for you today.

My colleague Heather is an expert when it comes to fear around relationships and commitment after a divorce. She created a video that you should really check out.

The part I love most is when she explains why our brains go on high alert after experiencing divorce.

I really love her message and I know you will too.

She offers free mini sessions too and if I were you… I would be the first to schedule with her.

She’s amazing.

I can’t say enough good things about the work she does to help women like us let go of the fears and finally create a fresh start.

Click here and enjoy!

Have an amazing weekend – you deserve it!

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royal treatment

Wednesday in my Single Mom group we talked about setting the bar high when it comes to dating. We talked about deciding what you want and not settling for anything less.

We talked about committing to only allowing people into your life who treat you the way you deserve to be treated.

And do you know where that begins? With YOU.

What do you say to yourself when you wake up in the morning?
What do you say to yourself when you think you’ve made a mistake?
When you’re stuck or frustrated, how much compassion do you offer yourself?

The relationship you have with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have in your life.

Make it a good one.

Be kind to you. Offer yourself compassion just because you’re human.
Give yourself the royal treatment by believing in yourself.

Have an amazing weekend – you deserve it <3
xo

-Molly Claire

date me

I remember when I first started dating after divorce and all I could think was, “Who would want me now?”

3 kids, stretch marks, wrinkles… dating in my mini-van?

Wow, quite a package that I offer. 

Thank goodness I didn’t let that stop me.  I relied on my coach and my own coaching tools to remind myself that the only person who could decide if I was worth dating or not – was me.

And that someone who would want me – would actually want me… and not someone else.

They would want someone with the growth I had experienced.  They would value what I have to offer. They would connect with the person I am – kids, wrinkles, baggage and all.

I also knew that I had to believe I was worth it, before I could expect anyone else to believe it.

And so, I did.

I want to help you do the same…

This month we are talking all about dating after divorce in my membership!  It’s not too late to join and you can dig into this week’s content right away.  We talked on Wednesday about, “How do I know when I’m ready to date?”  and I’ve got a great success guide in the member’s area that you can start on as soon as you sign up.

Next week we will be talking more about this email as we approach the question, “Who would want me now?”  We will focus on creating confidence in who you are, exactly as you are.  It’s unbelievable work we are doing this month – don’t miss out!

Email me at molly@mollyclaire.com to get immediate access to my Heal, Survive, and Thrive e-course.  We’ll get you connected on our membership site and give you access to this last week’s coaching call as well.

Until then – will you decide today that you’re worth it?  Will you choose to believe that you’re lovable exactly as you are? 

I dare you to.
It’s so much fun.

Have a beautiful weekend – you deserve it!

-Molly Claire

dating

This week in my single mom membership group we talked about dating.

So fun, right? 
Or scary. Or fascinating.  Or however you want to look at it.

It can be crazy to think about dating again after a decade or two of marriage.  I know it was for me.

We talked yesterday about the most important first step in starting a new relationship…

Which is the relationship you have with yourself.
The relationship you have with yourself is how you treat yourself and how you talk to yourself.
It’s what you think about you and how you have your own back (or not).

If I’m kind to myself, then I’ll expect a partner to treat me the same way.
If I like who I am, then I’ll believe I’m worth being with someone who is amazing to me.

Cultivating a good relationship with yourself and practicing positive self-talk is the best first step in finding a great match for you.
Take some time to evaluate today how you treat yourself.

What things do you say to yourself on a regular basis?
Do you like those things, or do you want to say something different to yourself? 

Be your own best friend.
Look for the good in yourself.
Encourage yourself.

I promise that when you do this, you’ll invite others into your life who will treat you the same way.

Oh, and if you want to claim a complimentary trial spot in my membership group Click Here and use coupon code “Yes2You.”  You can join us for next week’s call online.

Have an amazing weekend – you deserve it.
xo
-Molly Claire